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There are many examples throughout history of those who have lost wars and surrendered and reformed and went on to great success, such as Germany and Japan after WW2. They accepted the terms of surrender, reformed their constitutions, and went on to become economic powerhouses and general forces of good for humanity.
These are exceptions, and not the rule. In a testament to the power of hubris, there are many, many more that didn’t, and it never ended well.
Nations and peoples that refused to admit defeat, and ended up failing harder
The Byzantine Empire (late stages, particularly 14th-15th centuries)
Refusal to admit defeat (of imperial grandeur):
Despite being a shadow of its former self, surrounded by enemies (especially the Ottoman Turks), and possessing a tiny military, the Byzantine emperors often held onto notions of their imperial legacy and divine right, engaging in diplomatic maneuvers and resisting Ottoman demands even when clearly outmatched.
The Ottoman system could have easily integrated the Greeks, and protected their freedom of religion at a small tax – جِزْيَة, the Jizya – but they held out hope for a Sparta-like miracle from heaven (see end of this article for more on that). Maybe the Greeks could have held onto the Hagia Sophia, as Jerusalem is apportioned today.
Failed harder:
This delayed the inevitable, allowing the Ottomans to consolidate their power and eventually leading to the complete conquest of Constantinople in 1453. Had there been a more pragmatic assessment earlier, perhaps a different arrangement could have been struck, or the empire might have negotiated a more favorable client state status for a time. Instead, it was a complete and utter end.
Here is there fever dream: The Final Crusade: Drive the Ottomans out of Europe
The inveterate Confederates after the American Civil War
Refusal to admit defeat:
After major defeats like Gettysburg and Vicksburg, and as the Union’s superior industrial and demographic power became undeniable, many Confederate leaders and soldiers continued to fight fiercely, driven by a belief in their cause and fear of the consequences of defeat.
Failed harder:
The prolonged war led to immense destruction in the South, widespread poverty, and a much more punitive Reconstruction era than might have occurred with an earlier, negotiated peace. and in something worthy of Blazing Saddles, this was the icing on the cake on top of a ringworm outbreak brought on by stepping in their own feces and not using outhouses.
Southern racists and slave owners just couldn’t let it go. They kept trying to bring back the Klan, kept erecting Confederate statues and Jim Crow laws in a vain attempt to erase their loss.
Germany between World War I and II
Refusal to admit defeat:
The Stab in the Back conspiracy theory led Hitler and many Germans to believe they would have won, if not for the Jews. It was all laid out in Mein Kampf. This belief led to their Untergang in WW2. Adolf Hitler’s unwavering belief in ultimate victory, even as Allied forces closed in from all sides and German cities were reduced to rubble. He ordered continued resistance, sacrificing countless lives and resources, even when the war was clearly lost.
Failed harder:
This refusal led to the total devastation of Germany, immense civilian casualties, a prolonged and brutal occupation, and a division of the country that lasted for decades. Had a surrender come earlier, much of this destruction could have been avoided.
Revolutionary Russia (1917-1922)
Refusal to admit defeat (of the old order):
After the February Revolution and the abdication of the Tsar, various anti-Bolshevik forces (White Armies, foreign interventionists) refused to accept the collapse of the imperial system and the rise of the Bolsheviks. They continued a brutal civil war.
Failed harder:
This prolonged conflict devastated Russia, led to widespread famine, exacerbated internal divisions, and contributed to the consolidation of a highly authoritarian and brutal Bolshevik regime. Had a more unified and pragmatic approach to the initial revolution been taken, the outcome for Russia might have been less destructive.
Imperial Japan (World War II)
Refusal to admit defeat:
Despite devastating losses, the firebombing of their cities, and the impending defeat, the Japanese military leadership initially resisted unconditional surrender, often adhering to a bushido code that prioritized death over dishonor. They even considered a last-ditch “final battle” on their home islands.
Failed harder:
This protracted resistance directly contributed to the use of atomic bombs on Hiroshima and Nagasaki, which forced an immediate and unconditional surrender, and resulted in catastrophic loss of life and unimaginable suffering.
China (Kuomintang during the Chinese Civil War, 1945-1949)
Refusal to admit defeat:
After World War II, Chiang Kai-shek’s Nationalist (Kuomintang) government, despite having numerical superiority and international recognition, consistently underestimated the Communist forces and refused to seriously negotiate a power-sharing arrangement that might have preserved some of their influence. They believed their ultimate victory was inevitable.
Failed harder:
The KMT’s continued military campaigns and political inflexibility, combined with rampant corruption and economic mismanagement, alienated the population and led to their complete defeat and retreat to Taiwan. The mainland fell entirely under Communist control, a far more severe outcome than if a negotiated settlement had been reached.
Palestinians after the Arab-Israeli War of 1948, the Six Day War in 1967, the Yom Kippur War in 1973, the Intifadas from 1987-2005, the current Israel-Hamas war
Refusal to admit defeat:
Arabs are fundamentally, culturally incapable of beating Western militaries, especially Israel’s. Although they have innovated on the terror front, inventing airplane hijacking in the 1970s.
Failed harder:
Each time they lost, their world collapsed even further.
Had the Palestinians not helped destroy Lebanon in the 1970s, and tried to do so with Jordan, and just accepted their loss, Gaza could have been the Paris of the East Mediterranean. Instead, they are stuck in squalor, pumping out babies, paid for by the UN. And no one wants them, not even their Arab neighbors.
China during the Great Leap Forward (1958-1962)
Refusal to admit defeat (ideological):
While not a military conflict in the traditional sense, Mao Zedong’s insistence on the “Great Leap Forward” as a path to rapid industrialization, despite overwhelming evidence of its catastrophic failure (leading to the Great Chinese Famine and tens of millions of deaths), can be seen as a refusal to admit ideological defeat. Local officials often exaggerated output to avoid admitting failure, further exacerbating the crisis.
Failed harder:
The stubborn adherence to this disastrous policy led to one of the worst famines in human history, widespread suffering, and significant setbacks for China’s development.
Rhodesia (1965-1979)
Refusal to admit defeat
The white minority government of Rhodesia, led by Ian Smith, declared unilateral independence from Britain in 1965 to avoid majority rule. Despite international sanctions, isolation, and a growing guerrilla war, they stubbornly refused to negotiate a transition to Black majority rule for years, believing they could maintain their status quo.
Failed harder
The prolonged resistance led to a brutal civil war (the Rhodesian Bush War) that cost tens of thousands of lives, crippled the economy, and ultimately resulted in a more radical and less controlled transition to an independent Zimbabwe, arguably worse for the white minority than a managed transition might have been.
Iraq under Saddam Hussein (after the 1991 Gulf War and leading up to 2003)
Refusal to admit defeat:
After the decisive defeat in the 1991 Gulf War, Saddam Hussein consistently refused to fully comply with UN resolutions regarding weapons inspections and disarmament. He maintained a defiant posture, often denying the true extent of his capabilities.
Failed harder:
This refusal contributed to continued international sanctions, a further weakening of the Iraqi state, and ultimately, the 2003 invasion, which led to the overthrow of his regime, prolonged instability, and immense suffering for the Iraqi people.
Donald Trump (January 6, 2021)
Refusal to admit defeat:
Donald Trump refused to accept the loss in 2020 and each challenge in court failed. No evidence of significant voter fraud was ever found.
Failed harder:
We all know what happened.
The outcome ultimately will be an even greater loss for the Republicans, and the country itself, had they not elected a leader that refused to accept any responsibility and ignited an insurrection while sending the miiltary after protesters,
Russia’s Invasion of Ukraine (2022 – present)
Refusal to admit defeat:
Putin refuses to back down, even after losing a million fighters.- He has total control of the Russian propaganda machine. He could have easily spun this to his people and backed out.
But he didn’t.
So he…
Failed harder:
Now Russia is a laughingstock.
Now a third of Russia’s nuclear deterrent is gone forever.
Now the Scandinavian countries are in NATO.
Sanctions will only get more severe as time goes on. Russia’s population ticking time bomb spells generational destruction of the Russian people.
Who knows what the outcome had been had Putin been wise enough to immediately call it off once his 3 mile long caravan of tanks got obliterated by guys with Javelins in the first few days, long before military aid really kicked in?

Root Causes
In each of these instances, greater empathy for the downtrodden would have prolonged the suffering. Sometimes, the humane thing to do for your sick old dog that is in pain is take it out of its misery by putting it down. But as we have “progressed” as a race, killing the victims who refuse to surrender is seen as inhumane. On the contrary, letting the KKK do its parades, throwing rations at the Japanese soldiers who hid out in caves for decades, would not have solved anything.
So what are the Key characteristics of nations that “fail harder” due to not admitting defeat?
The main reason, I would say, as did Classic Greek tragedy, Hubris. Excessive pride or self-confidence that blinds leaders to their actual capabilities or the strength of their adversaries.
Also:
Ideological rigidity: A deep-seated belief in a flawed ideology or narrative that prevents an honest assessment of the situation.
Authoritarian leadership: Leaders who are unwilling to accept dissent or negative feedback, leading to a disconnect from reality.
Sacrifice of the populace: A willingness to sacrifice the lives and well-being of their own people for a lost cause.
Escalation of conflict: Continuing to commit resources and engage in conflict long after the strategic objective is unattainable.
Devastating consequences: The eventual defeat is often more absolute, with greater loss of life, destruction, and long-term instability.
It’s a recurring theme in history: the inability to accept a difficult reality often leads to far more painful outcomes.
Cognitive Dissonance: An inability to reconcile deeply held beliefs or self-perceptions with undeniable reality.
Misinformation/Propaganda: Leaders often feed their populations (and themselves) a false narrative of imminent victory, making any suggestion of defeat unthinkable.
Suppression of Dissent: Those who advocate for realism or negotiation are often marginalized or punished, leading to a lack of accurate information and honest assessment.
Moral Hazard: Sometimes, the personal stakes for leaders (e.g., fear of being tried for war crimes, loss of power) are so high that they prefer to prolong a doomed fight rather than face accountability.
Conclusion
Although their determination is admirable, doubling down made them, or will make them, lose everything. Life has consequences. We just don’t seem to learn from history.

Editor’s Note: I just couldn’t resist. Here is the counterexample, the exception that proves the rule:

